Hi Ron and Hector, I think the majority of gay men put the cart before the horse. They want sex first, then friendship This is an impossible situation.

Tell them to seek friends, discuss their likes and dislikes before stampeding to the genitalia.

To Apollo Network:  Another great newsletter. Your message regarding "Finding Gay Friends and Lovers" is particularly insightful and enlightening.

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