Hi, Doctor, I am having "Performance Anxiety" when I get with my men. At home I can get good hardons, stiff and hard like a brick, and can j/o for several minutes enjoying the pleasures, and sometimes cum and sometimes not. I have a few guys that I go see on a regular basis for our mutual pleasuring. But, lately I have been not able to get it up and able to perform. What I can do to overcome this Anxiety. -Anon

Dear Anon Your situation sounds like an excellent opportunity for the use of Viagra, Cialis, or Levitra. Those drugs should help you achieve a good quality erection. Once you are sure that you can achieve a good erection, your confidence level will improve an you may not need medication any longer. With performance anxiety, success breeds success, and failure breed more anxiety and avoidance.